Really Needy or Not Needy ?

Have you ever been question mark with this question. I have been always when I travel in my city and see small children's , women , handicap people, even women with infants in their arms beg on the streets, signals, outside a temple and many other  places around the city. At first instant I feel bad always seeing them but later when I think there are always questions arising in my mind "are these people really needy or not needy ". I mostly doubt seeing most of them as their behavior doesn't seem appropriate. Some children are really irritating when they approach people for begging, most of you must have notice this. If you say no to them they start misbehaving many times. Even I have seen if you offer them to eat something they seem unhappy many times and ask for money only. Also if someone gives them packet food like biscuits , snacks or anything which is sealed pack, they try to resale it. The women with infants in  their arms try to make that infant cry purposely while begging by pinching them. The naked truth is that most of these infants doesn't really belong to them , they are borrowed from their real mother or mostly orphan. You all must be thinking whatever I am saying must be true but still we should help them by seeing their condition. So have you ever thought the other way, even after your help is their condition improving or the population of these people decreasing. Poverty is still growing as per my vision. That is why my concern behind all this is, we need to know the real facts behind these people , are these people fake? are we really helping the right people? I feel these people are fake just working under some organization whose primary aim is to get money from these underprivileged people using their condition tactfully. I am not pointing out that these people should be thrown away. But my aim is stop the culprit minds behind them who are misleading these people for their benefits. It's must, everybody should know the reality behind what we see in our day to day life while helping these people around your city because it's the unknown truth, that most of these people are forcefully tortured to conduct such acts.
Help but in a right way to right person so that it serve the actual cause indirectly. In spite of giving money offer them books, eatables, clothes , education or offer them a job if possible. We need to talk to them to know more about them and guide them. While doing this if you find something wrong you need to report.  Giving money to the needy is not right but giving money for right purpose to the needy is right. Help but do not influence to continue to beg or else do not help only.
Help to help the right to make you feel right always.
According to me different ways of helping these people as follows:
- Talk to them , know their needs and conditions properly
- Offer them home food
- Offer old clothes
- Offer them a job
- Educate them and make them aware of what is right and wrong
Share your views and ways through which we can help these people

Lastly I would like to say be happy and spread happiness

Luv You All n Stay Happy,
- Bhairav Jain
 

What's Happiness ?

People define / understand / see happiness in different ways. According to me happiness is not just a word nor related to anything neither in context to anything. Some people relate their happiness to money, car, home or any such luxury. If you ask me happiness is all around us, we just have to realize it and stop comparing our life with others. Because while comparing, people tend to concentrate on what others have rather than what they lack. Also we mostly look on good part of others life, we always see their best side and make us feel low and unhappy. We human beings always try to match up with someone superior, someone successful, someone very wealthy, while doing this we forget we all are born equal and we come with nothing and we go with nothing. Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well being which is always there with us in any situation but we control / suppress it within us. In simple words we change our mind according to the situation. It's natural behaviour of human beings when something wrong / bad happens in their life they stop smiling, their mind is not peaceful. Actually the fact is we control our mind for that moment thinking all negative. All this happens because our imagination takes us to good part of our life or others life, thus creating that bad feeling into our sub conscious mind making us lose our smile and peace. The important thing is how we carry our self in all phases of life. If you always remain positive no one can take away happiness from us. In this way you will always smile but at the same time you will spread happiness around your surrounding with your smile, words and gesture. I understand certain sorrows really despair us but we should not loose hope and our happiness. My personal opinion in handling all such situations would be, peacefully thinking of people who are more unfortunate than us but still live and smile with whatever they have. We should be motivated from those people and get inspired from them and thus our positive energy of overcoming sorrows will motivate others. This will help in spreading 'Happiness'. In this world, there are millions of people who don't have food to eat, shelter to live and clothes to wear. There are people who are underprivileged and also many struggling with fatal disease. So be thankful to God for whatever he has given us and we should say the following sentence everyday because it really makes you positive it's my personal experience.

"Thank you God for all the things you have given me".

"Thank you for all the experiences, for times of success which will always be happy".

Lastly I would like to say be happy and spread happiness

Luv u all & Stay Happy,
-Bhairav Jain