Really Needy or Not Needy ?

Have you ever been question mark with this question. I have been always when I travel in my city and see small children's , women , handicap people, even women with infants in their arms beg on the streets, signals, outside a temple and many other  places around the city. At first instant I feel bad always seeing them but later when I think there are always questions arising in my mind "are these people really needy or not needy ". I mostly doubt seeing most of them as their behavior doesn't seem appropriate. Some children are really irritating when they approach people for begging, most of you must have notice this. If you say no to them they start misbehaving many times. Even I have seen if you offer them to eat something they seem unhappy many times and ask for money only. Also if someone gives them packet food like biscuits , snacks or anything which is sealed pack, they try to resale it. The women with infants in  their arms try to make that infant cry purposely while begging by pinching them. The naked truth is that most of these infants doesn't really belong to them , they are borrowed from their real mother or mostly orphan. You all must be thinking whatever I am saying must be true but still we should help them by seeing their condition. So have you ever thought the other way, even after your help is their condition improving or the population of these people decreasing. Poverty is still growing as per my vision. That is why my concern behind all this is, we need to know the real facts behind these people , are these people fake? are we really helping the right people? I feel these people are fake just working under some organization whose primary aim is to get money from these underprivileged people using their condition tactfully. I am not pointing out that these people should be thrown away. But my aim is stop the culprit minds behind them who are misleading these people for their benefits. It's must, everybody should know the reality behind what we see in our day to day life while helping these people around your city because it's the unknown truth, that most of these people are forcefully tortured to conduct such acts.
Help but in a right way to right person so that it serve the actual cause indirectly. In spite of giving money offer them books, eatables, clothes , education or offer them a job if possible. We need to talk to them to know more about them and guide them. While doing this if you find something wrong you need to report.  Giving money to the needy is not right but giving money for right purpose to the needy is right. Help but do not influence to continue to beg or else do not help only.
Help to help the right to make you feel right always.
According to me different ways of helping these people as follows:
- Talk to them , know their needs and conditions properly
- Offer them home food
- Offer old clothes
- Offer them a job
- Educate them and make them aware of what is right and wrong
Share your views and ways through which we can help these people

Lastly I would like to say be happy and spread happiness

Luv You All n Stay Happy,
- Bhairav Jain
 

What's Happiness ?

People define / understand / see happiness in different ways. According to me happiness is not just a word nor related to anything neither in context to anything. Some people relate their happiness to money, car, home or any such luxury. If you ask me happiness is all around us, we just have to realize it and stop comparing our life with others. Because while comparing, people tend to concentrate on what others have rather than what they lack. Also we mostly look on good part of others life, we always see their best side and make us feel low and unhappy. We human beings always try to match up with someone superior, someone successful, someone very wealthy, while doing this we forget we all are born equal and we come with nothing and we go with nothing. Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well being which is always there with us in any situation but we control / suppress it within us. In simple words we change our mind according to the situation. It's natural behaviour of human beings when something wrong / bad happens in their life they stop smiling, their mind is not peaceful. Actually the fact is we control our mind for that moment thinking all negative. All this happens because our imagination takes us to good part of our life or others life, thus creating that bad feeling into our sub conscious mind making us lose our smile and peace. The important thing is how we carry our self in all phases of life. If you always remain positive no one can take away happiness from us. In this way you will always smile but at the same time you will spread happiness around your surrounding with your smile, words and gesture. I understand certain sorrows really despair us but we should not loose hope and our happiness. My personal opinion in handling all such situations would be, peacefully thinking of people who are more unfortunate than us but still live and smile with whatever they have. We should be motivated from those people and get inspired from them and thus our positive energy of overcoming sorrows will motivate others. This will help in spreading 'Happiness'. In this world, there are millions of people who don't have food to eat, shelter to live and clothes to wear. There are people who are underprivileged and also many struggling with fatal disease. So be thankful to God for whatever he has given us and we should say the following sentence everyday because it really makes you positive it's my personal experience.

"Thank you God for all the things you have given me".

"Thank you for all the experiences, for times of success which will always be happy".

Lastly I would like to say be happy and spread happiness

Luv u all & Stay Happy,
-Bhairav Jain

Every girl thinks today am I safe?

Hello,

Why such heinous crime happens in India? Just because there is no fear about the consequences among the people who think of doing such crimes and this is because there are no perfect laws to punish the culprits. The devils feel that no one is going to punish them and in that mindset they keep doing such crimes. The government body should take serious action to punish such devils, rather than this they should do things in order to stop such crimes. Strict laws should be passed so that a person committing such crimes thinks twice before doing it. Security should be enhanced all over India. But still people especially girls are not secure in this country because most of the time a girl is being raped and molested by a person who belongs to a political party or a rich family who are let free without getting punished and many times a complaint is also not filed due to fear. As a result such people get more influence to do such heinous acts. So I want the government to pass such laws which gives equal punishment to all rapists and the punishment should be so severe that the crime rate decreases. That is the next but now the Delhi gang rape accused should not only be given death punishment but also some severe punishment making them feel hell being alive and also passing the message that no one is going to be spared from now on to all the devils who enjoy doing such things.

If u agree please like it and if u don't comment on it.

God bless all girls.

Luv u all,
Bhairav

Egoism

Egoism:

Increasing amount of ego in people not only hurts the people whom it is been showcase. It also creates the feeling of revenge which is spoiling the humanity. Ego comes from the fact of being superior most of which is due to the power of money. Most of the people can’t differentiate between attitude and ego. Yes there might be similarity between the two. In my view too much of attitude is named to be or it is been seen as ego. Attitude is necessary and it should be there in every human being to prove its personality if he/she are influencing somebody. But sometimes it leads to ego because most of them get too much of credit, dominancy, respect and so on. If the person is a real personality he/she learns the art of being down to earth with their attitude. In my own country the nature of ego is found in most of the human beings. I just want the people to know that this type of nature is leading to problems like jealousy, revenge and bad deeds / habits. In my generation money and looks are mostly the reason behind egoistic nature. But they don’t know god has sent everybody with equal qualities. When we are born we look different and we don’t bring money along with us. Similarly when we die we look different and we don’t take money along with us. So the period we live there are many changes in our money power and looks. Money and looks are temporary. Be proud with what god has given to us and don’t show off it to others. And also remember the famous dialogue from one of the bollywood movies “Kya Lekar Aaye the tum Kya Lekar Joage” which means u came empty hands and u will go empty hands. So live happily show your talent, kill ego, respect everybody whoever it is and don’t underestimate anybody. Because when life ends you are going to just leave memories behind, taking nothing so in order to keep only good memories among people be kind full, helpful and live to make others smile. And one last thing if you want to know how much you have earn and how much respect you have gained just see how many people stand with you in your bad times and also how many people attend your last ride when you die that is the real thing you will really earn living in this world.

Luv u all,

Bhairav Jain

Indian culture on the track of losing

Indian culture on the track of losing

What’s wrong with people in India? Why are they forgetting their culture and values. I know they are living their life as per the generation asking them to live. But living life to cope up with the present life doesn’t mean we should forget the base on which India is known and grown. After returning back to India from UK, I have seen many similarities but still we can’t copy them completely. I have seen teenagers in India are crossing their limits and forgetting their value (on which they were born and brought up.) The increasing amount of Hukka, cigarette and alcohol intake among the current generation is not wrong but most of them are doing it just because they feel it gains them status and value or as an addiction. My question to those youths is that if you feel it is a respectful job then do it in front of your parents and other elder people. Why to hide it? Do it openly as the foreigners do? If you are copying their culture then copy them completely. Also my hatred towards Indian girls has increased in past few years. I hate girls in India not because they do lots of gossiping but due to their behaviour and habits which have changed a lot in recent years. I know most of the girls will hate me and call me male chauvinist. And also question me saying that we have our own life, we are free to do anything and why we can’t be like guys. My answer to them would be just one simple line that is ‘Would you like to be an object for some purpose or an adorable person / somebody’s life’. Girls you have complete right and freedom to live a happy life but rather know your limits in advance despite of blaming guys later on.

            I know after reading this youth will hate me and ask me being a youth why you are against our generation. Guys I am not against any generation, I also enjoy life but I don’t cross limits. I am just telling you people if you are allowing outside culture to grow over here why not allow each and every aspect of their living. I have seen people in foreign countries don’t have ego, jealousy, interference, disrespect and also they are well disciplined. And for them drinking and sex is normal thing. If we are copying their bad things then copy their good things too. But my suggestion to all of you is if you want to see you and your country progressing then copy only good things from others and don’t get influenced by bad deeds. ‘Life is beautiful enjoy each and every moment of it but respect the giver and taker of this life: your parents and god’.

 Luv u all

-- Bhairav Jain 

ATTITUDE

Hello,

What comes in your mind when you hear the word ATTITUDE? When I hear this word I just think to keep it positive. I know it is very difficult to be optimistic always. But our start and end of the day depends on our ATTITUDE. In fact our life also fluctuates as per our ATTITUDE. I would like to share one small story which I recently read in some book. The story is of a balloon seller who used to sell all colours of balloon whole day. But whenever his business was slow he would release helium – filled balloon into the air which would attract children and they all wanted to buy one. In this way his sales would go up again. He continued this process whole day. Suddenly one day one child asked the balloon seller that “If you release a black balloon, would that also fly”. Enthused by the concern, the balloon seller replied with sympathy. “Son it is not the colour of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up”. The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is inside that counts. The things inside of us that makes us go up is our ATTITUDE. So always try to be positive. I would not share the benefits of a positive ATTITUDE as many of them know it or if you apply it in your life then automatically you will see the benefits of a positive ATTITUDE.

Always keep the ATTITUDE +ve

Cheers

Luv u all,

Bhairav

Is Money really so important?

Hello,

Finally I am back and I hope to create some interest among people. In short trying to increase my followers not really folks but trying to spread some knowledge and to get some knowledge. Any ways the topic that I have chosen today is very interesting. This is the thing for which people die, people kill others, relations are broken, relations are developed, luxury is achieved, luxury is taken from others, stress is taken, and stress is given as you can see this thing has both negative and positive sides similar to many other things. But the fact which we are seeing and the coming generation will see is clearly visible that this thing is destroying love, relations and respect. In simple words it is destroying the world and humanity. I guess till now you must have understood what I am talking about. If you haven’t then let me tell you I am talking about ‘MONEY’. Is money really so important? Most of them will say yes it is. Some of them will say not really and be diplomatic while answering this. But there will be very few people who will say no it is not important and those will be the people who have lived their life and were part of the world which are ancestors have seen where love was important. If you ask me what will be my answer. I would choose diplomatic answer rather saying Yes or No. The reasons behind this answer are very simple and I believe many would agree to these reasons. The reasons are to achieve love from all and to give love to all; to help others and to get help from others; and to be happy and to make others happy. But at the end the same question is raised Is money really so important? If you concentrate on the reasons which I gave and also on your own reasons of having money will tell you only one thing even though you have money you are poor and you have to depend on others for many things like love, help, happiness, etc. so now you decide the importance of money because even after having it you have to bend in front of others as money is just a thing and not the necessity of humanity.

  Spread this with your own views on it so that we can at least try to remove the importance of money because I believe and most of you believe and also feel the need to change the World.

Love you all,

Bhairav Jain